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First Time Hiring An Escort? |
Availability
Most escorts are available local to their cities and many are able to
travel the US and internationally, but their time and day availability
differs. Many boys are working their way through college and escort on
weekends, holidays, and school breaks. You can expect quality escorts
are drug and disease free and quite reliable.
Payment
Most boys love and appreciate cash! You may, however, pay by travelers
check, postal money order, or cashiers check if you wish. If I meet
someone often and know them, I may accept personal checks. Some escorts
even accept credit cards are accepted with prior arrangement.
www.PayPal.com no longer will process payments for adult business as far
as I know, but there are other payment processors that will for a small
percent of the transaction. Some escorts do allow recurring clients to
pay by personal or company check following the third date.
Tipping
Tipping is not required, but as with any service, if you are pleased with
the way you were treated during your date, it is nice to show your
appreciation.
Specialties
Each escort has their own unique abilities, looks, and talents, so please
check their individual preferences. Boys like to discuss sex, so you
will see each one talking about what they do in their leisure time,
which mainly revolves around sex. Not that they are selling those
services, just the things they enjoy with other men. Some of them will
strip, dance, and model for keepsake pictures or videos. If you desire
more than one boy to entertain you, then that can be arranged for an
additional 50-percent above the boys averaged rates. Boys may be
available to single men, male/male couples, or all-male groups. A few
will entertain male/female couples or mixed groups. Again, communicate
both ways.
Confidentiality
Agency or escort, generally do not maintain records past your date.
Personal information should be encrypted and later destroyed, when it
is no longer needed.
Protection of personal information of both our boys and of customers
should remain at the of your list. Generally, no information about you
other than first name, where to meet you, and your special requests need
to be given to the boy. Good 'scorts strive to give both you and the boy
the utmost of protection and confidentiality. In the same manner, please
respect the boys personal lives and try not to pry. They'll be providing
you the same courtesy.
Agency's boys generally have been trained by the agency. Any independent
escort can use the Sex Worker's Handbook from www.hookonline.org (...not
that they are sex workers.) and other literature, so they are aware of
how to keep themselves and their clients out of any legal
entanglements.
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When Meeting
Most escorts will not discuss specific sexual acts for sale. Such is
illegal and their services are for time and companionship only.
Money is exchanged for time only, the decision to have sex would be a
mutual and consensual decision two adults make. Upon meeting the escort,
you may be asked certain questions about any possible affiliation with
law enforcement. That being said, boys will be boys and you know how
horny boys get! What the two of you end up doing with your time is up to
you. This is to protect both you and the boy. Usually the boy will
present himself dressed as you requested, IF you made such a request and
which is TOTALLY in line. (...got a soccer fetish? Let 'em know.) and
behaving in any manner or role you have arranged. He will be clean and
sober AND will expect you to be too. The boy may request you shower
first, most of the time though, novice or experienced, that comes with
common thought. If the boy feels you are under the influence of drugs or
too much alcohol, he will leave. If you feel the boy does not act
professionally, showed up late or under the influence, then you have
every right to ask them to leave.
Please remember, prior to the boy meeting you a fee and length of time was
arranged. The fee is not negotiable, but if you feel you need him for a
less amount of time than you first thought then you can end the date
provided you have paid for the first hour. This only applies to local
dates, however. Going overtime is not a problem as long as the boy does
not have another date to get too. We do try to arrange dates to where
clients can get extra time if they want, but sometimes the boy does get
busy. Lastly, most professional boys are exactly how they represent
themselves- their pictures and stats are current and accurate - but if
you feel the boy has presented himself in an inaccurate manner you can
ask him to leave without any compensation at the time of arrival. That
only applies at the first encounter. If you've had the boy spend time
with you, he does need to be compensated.
Confirming A Date
Local dates are easy to set-up, if within 48-hours of meeting, just ask.
Returning clients may book for any time with just a phone call. If,
however, you desire the boy to travel outside his city or wish to book
him for a specific time in the future certain conditions do apply, If
you use an agency, one of which is you must go directly through the
agency and not the boy himself. Otherwise, like other independent
businesses, just give him a call. All travel, ground transport, and
hotel expenses must be arranged by the client and the details provided
before the date will be confirmed or the boy should not travel. Some
boys may require a deposit (...along the lines of 3 hours or on night on
a longer trip.) to assure the validity of such a experience. Remember
though, some escorts use a typical scam and require a deposit before and
then don't show up. It's trashy, yes, in my opinion, if you use a high
caliber escort, and you are a high-caliber gentleman, there should not
be a problem.
If you plan to travel to his city and meet him there for a future date,
only a retainer of one hour may be required to confirm the date. It has
been found many out-of-town clients will attempt to pre-book the boy and
never make it to town or cancel later on and not let the boy or agency
know.
Some agencies prefer all travel, transport, and hotel arrangements be
handled by the client when possible. If, however, you prefer the agency
to make the arrangements some can do so for an additional ten percent or
so surcharge. Same with an independent boy, do you want him to make the
arrangements? It may cost more. I prefer that the client do the
arrangements, that way there is some assurance that it is valid and
there is a small paper trail and both the client and escort is covered.
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